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How to Build an Athletic Identity That Goes Beyond Soccer — What College Coaches Really Want
Ask a serious young soccer player what they love besides the game, and watch them go quiet. Here's why college coaches actually notice and care about that.
5 Mistakes Youth Soccer Players Make During the College Recruiting Process
Good grades, a solid highlight video, emails sent to a dozen schools, and still no replies? These five avoidable recruiting mistakes are probably why.
How BGM Mentors Help Athletes Navigate the College Recruitment Journey
Recruiting isn't just highlight videos and emails to coaches. See how Beyond Goals mentors help athletes handle the tactical and mental sides at once.
The Mental Side of the College Recruiting Process (That Nobody Talks About)
A teammate's commitment post on Instagram can wreck your whole day out of nowhere. Here's why recruiting messes with a player's head, and how to protect it.
Division I vs. Division II vs. Division III Soccer: Which Path is Right For Your Athlete?
D1 isn't automatically the best path for every player, even a talented one. An honest look at D1, D2, and D3 soccer to help your family find the right fit.
How to Write a Standout Email to a College Soccer Coach (With a Template)
Sent a great email and heard nothing back after four days of checking? Here's why recruiting emails get ignored by coaches, plus a template that works.
What College Soccer Coaches Actually Want to See in a Recruiting Video
Most highlight videos get eight seconds before a coach moves to the next tab in a stack of forty. Here's what actually makes them keep watching yours.
The Youth Soccer College Recruiting Timeline: What Parents Need to Know By Grade Level
Panicking that your freshman isn't getting recruiting emails yet? Here's the real grade-by-grade soccer recruiting timeline parents actually need to know.
Back-to-School and Back-to-Soccer: Balancing Academics and Athletics Without Burning Out
Mike Parkhurst on the specific system teen soccer players need when school and soccer hit at the same time — so neither one suffers and neither does the athlete.
The Role of a Mentor During a Major Season Transition for a Youth Athlete
Mike Parkhurst on what a mentor actually does during a major season transition — and why this is the moment when the right guidance changes everything.
How to Handle the Pressure of Being the “Standout Player” on Your Youth Soccer Team
Greg Garza on what it actually feels like to be the standout player — and the specific mental habits that keep that pressure from becoming a ceiling.
How to Motivate a Teen Athlete Academically
Mike Parkhurst on why the usual academic pressure tactics don't work on teen athletes — and what actually connects school effort to their identity as a player.
New Season, New Mindset: How to Set Goals as a Youth Soccer Player Before the Season Starts
Greg Garza on how competitive youth players set goals that actually change how they develop — not the kind that get forgotten by Week 3.
Getting Cut From a Soccer Team: How to Help Your Child Process Rejection and Move Forward
Greg Garza on what to say, what not to say, and how to help your child turn a soccer cut into something that actually moves them forward.
How to Mentally Prepare for Soccer Tryouts: A Step-by-Step Guide for Competitive Athletes
Mike Parkhurst shares the exact mental prep process elite players use before high-stakes moments — adapted for competitive youth soccer tryouts.
What Coaches Are Really Looking For at Youth Soccer Tryouts (It's Not Just Skill)
Greg Garza breaks down what coaches actually evaluate at youth soccer tryouts — and why character and decision-making outrank skill every time.
The Connection Between Confidence and College Recruiting in Youth Soccer
Learn what college soccer coaches actually evaluate when they watch a recruit, and how players at every age can start building the composure that gets them offered.
How to Help a Teen Soccer Player with Anxiety
Greg breaks down what teen soccer player anxiety actually looks like, what parents do that accidentally makes it worse, and the specific tools that help — plus when to bring in professional support.
The Pre-Game Routine: How Top Youth Soccer Players Mentally Prepare to Compete
Greg breaks down the three-phase pre-game routine that separates players who consistently perform from those who show up and hope for the best.
When Your Teen Soccer Player Is Always Playing Angry
Mike breaks down why some teen soccer players always seem to play angry — the real costs, the surprising benefits, and what parents can actually do to help their athlete channel intensity instead of losing to it.