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How to Talk to Your Youth Athlete About Mental Health Without Making It Awkward
Greg Garza offers parents a low-pressure way to open mental health conversations with their young athlete — without it feeling forced or awkward.
Dealing With Performance Slumps: A Guide for Young Soccer Athletes and Their Parents
Greg Garza explains why soccer slumps happen and gives players and parents specific tools to work through one — without making it worse by trying harder.
When Your Child Wants to Quit Soccer: How to Navigate a Pivotal Moment Together
Greg Garza offers a framework for parents navigating the moment their child says they want to quit soccer — how to understand what's really behind it before deciding anything.
What to Say (and Not Say) to Your Child After a Bad Soccer Game
Greg Garza gives parents the exact words to use — and avoid — in the car ride home after a tough soccer game.
How to Be a Supportive Soccer Parent Without Creating Pressure
Greg Garza breaks down the difference between support and pressure in youth soccer parenting — and gives parents a simple filter to check their own words.
How to Build an Athletic Identity That Goes Beyond Soccer — What College Coaches Really Want
Ask a serious young soccer player what they love besides the game, and watch them go quiet. Here's why college coaches actually notice and care about that.
5 Mistakes Youth Soccer Players Make During the College Recruiting Process
Good grades, a solid highlight video, emails sent to a dozen schools, and still no replies? These five avoidable recruiting mistakes are probably why.
How BGM Mentors Help Athletes Navigate the College Recruitment Journey
Recruiting isn't just highlight videos and emails to coaches. See how Beyond Goals mentors help athletes handle the tactical and mental sides at once.
The Mental Side of the College Recruiting Process (That Nobody Talks About)
A teammate's commitment post on Instagram can wreck your whole day out of nowhere. Here's why recruiting messes with a player's head, and how to protect it.
Division I vs. Division II vs. Division III Soccer: Which Path is Right For Your Athlete?
D1 isn't automatically the best path for every player, even a talented one. An honest look at D1, D2, and D3 soccer to help your family find the right fit.
How to Write a Standout Email to a College Soccer Coach (With a Template)
Sent a great email and heard nothing back after four days of checking? Here's why recruiting emails get ignored by coaches, plus a template that works.
What College Soccer Coaches Actually Want to See in a Recruiting Video
Most highlight videos get eight seconds before a coach moves to the next tab in a stack of forty. Here's what actually makes them keep watching yours.
The Youth Soccer College Recruiting Timeline: What Parents Need to Know By Grade Level
Panicking that your freshman isn't getting recruiting emails yet? Here's the real grade-by-grade soccer recruiting timeline parents actually need to know.
Back-to-School and Back-to-Soccer: Balancing Academics and Athletics Without Burning Out
Mike Parkhurst on the specific system teen soccer players need when school and soccer hit at the same time — so neither one suffers and neither does the athlete.
The Role of a Mentor During a Major Season Transition for a Youth Athlete
Mike Parkhurst on what a mentor actually does during a major season transition — and why this is the moment when the right guidance changes everything.
How to Handle the Pressure of Being the “Standout Player” on Your Youth Soccer Team
Greg Garza on what it actually feels like to be the standout player — and the specific mental habits that keep that pressure from becoming a ceiling.
How to Motivate a Teen Athlete Academically
Mike Parkhurst on why the usual academic pressure tactics don't work on teen athletes — and what actually connects school effort to their identity as a player.
New Season, New Mindset: How to Set Goals as a Youth Soccer Player Before the Season Starts
Greg Garza on how competitive youth players set goals that actually change how they develop — not the kind that get forgotten by Week 3.
Getting Cut From a Soccer Team: How to Help Your Child Process Rejection and Move Forward
Greg Garza on what to say, what not to say, and how to help your child turn a soccer cut into something that actually moves them forward.
How to Mentally Prepare for Soccer Tryouts: A Step-by-Step Guide for Competitive Athletes
Mike Parkhurst shares the exact mental prep process elite players use before high-stakes moments — adapted for competitive youth soccer tryouts.