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Back-to-School and Back-to-Soccer: Balancing Academics and Athletics Without Burning Out
Mike Parkhurst on the specific system teen soccer players need when school and soccer hit at the same time — so neither one suffers and neither does the athlete.
The Role of a Mentor During a Major Season Transition for a Youth Athlete
Mike Parkhurst on what a mentor actually does during a major season transition — and why this is the moment when the right guidance changes everything.
How to Handle the Pressure of Being the “Standout Player” on Your Youth Soccer Team
Greg Garza on what it actually feels like to be the standout player — and the specific mental habits that keep that pressure from becoming a ceiling.
How to Motivate a Teen Athlete Academically
Mike Parkhurst on why the usual academic pressure tactics don't work on teen athletes — and what actually connects school effort to their identity as a player.
New Season, New Mindset: How to Set Goals as a Youth Soccer Player Before the Season Starts
Greg Garza on how competitive youth players set goals that actually change how they develop — not the kind that get forgotten by Week 3.
Getting Cut From a Soccer Team: How to Help Your Child Process Rejection and Move Forward
Greg Garza on what to say, what not to say, and how to help your child turn a soccer cut into something that actually moves them forward.
How to Mentally Prepare for Soccer Tryouts: A Step-by-Step Guide for Competitive Athletes
Mike Parkhurst shares the exact mental prep process elite players use before high-stakes moments — adapted for competitive youth soccer tryouts.
What Coaches Are Really Looking For at Youth Soccer Tryouts (It's Not Just Skill)
Greg Garza breaks down what coaches actually evaluate at youth soccer tryouts — and why character and decision-making outrank skill every time.
The Connection Between Confidence and College Recruiting in Youth Soccer
Learn what college soccer coaches actually evaluate when they watch a recruit, and how players at every age can start building the composure that gets them offered.
How to Help a Teen Soccer Player with Anxiety
Greg breaks down what teen soccer player anxiety actually looks like, what parents do that accidentally makes it worse, and the specific tools that help — plus when to bring in professional support.
The Pre-Game Routine: How Top Youth Soccer Players Mentally Prepare to Compete
Greg breaks down the three-phase pre-game routine that separates players who consistently perform from those who show up and hope for the best.
When Your Teen Soccer Player Is Always Playing Angry
Mike breaks down why some teen soccer players always seem to play angry — the real costs, the surprising benefits, and what parents can actually do to help their athlete channel intensity instead of losing to it.
The Summer Soccer Training Plan for Competitive Youth Athletes: What to Work on Week by Week
Greg breaks down a full 8–12 week summer soccer training plan for competitive youth athletes — phase by phase, week by week — so you show up to preseason sharper than everyone who just winged it.
What to Do When Your Teenage Athlete Shuts Down Emotionally
Greg explains why teenage athletes shut down emotionally — and gives parents a practical, specific framework for what to do differently after a bad game, a rough season, or a broader pattern of withdrawal.
How to Overcome Fear of Failure in Competitive Youth Soccer
Greg breaks down why fear of failure hits youth soccer players so hard — and gives players and parents three specific tools to start changing the pattern this week.
What the USYS & US Club Soccer Merger Means for College Recruiting
We break down what the USYS and US Club Soccer merger actually means for college recruiting — what’s changing, what isn’t, and what families with serious college aspirations should be thinking about right now.
When a Teen Soccer Player Doesn't Believe in Themselves
Greg Garza addresses the confidence crisis that hits so many teen athletes — and the specific mindset shifts that help them find their footing and get back to playing their game.
What Is BGM Academy? A Parent's Guide to Our Online Soccer Mentorship Programs
Mike Parkhurst explains what BGM Academy and Master the Pitch are, how they work, and why soccer IQ training is the missing piece in most youth development programs.
What to Do When Your Athlete Compares Themselves to Teammates Constantly
Greg Garza on why constant teammate comparison holds youth soccer players back — and the mindset shift that turns self-criticism into a competitive edge.
When to Switch Youth Soccer Clubs: A Parent's Honest Guide
Not every club is the right fit at every stage. Greg Garza walks parents through the real questions to ask before deciding whether to stay or make a move.